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Many women in urban areas have been liberated sexually nike blazer fleuri basse , but the more they are getting comfortable with their own sexuality, the more their marriages are suffering in the area of sexual relating. Repressed urges and coy responses in women are being replaced by total acceptance of one's sexual feelings and open and bold expression of the same. One would have thought that men, who, for the longest period of time, complained about not having an exciting enough sex life at home and therefore sought it outside, would have been thrilled with the wife being a bold and active sexual partner, but unfortunately that is not always the case.
Normal heterosexual men are getting increasingly uncomfortable with the sexually liberated woman. Many so-called metrosexual men, who talk of equality of men and women, and say that they welcome the active participation of women in sexual relating, make the statement conditionally. What they mean is that they enjoy the active participation of the woman as long as it does not make them(the men) move out of their comfort zones. Which means that when the woman experiences an urge and initiates sex, if the man is not feeling like it of his own accord nike blazer imprimé fleuri , he wants the liberty and comfort of turning down the advances if he so chooses, without being questioned or cajoled into responding. The bottom line is, that he wants the remote control in his hand at all times, and if he does not have it, there can be problems in the marriage!
MR NICE GUY NEEDS COMFORT
This happens because of the upbringing and conditioning of such men because of which they have two contradictory needs - the need to be seen as Mr Nice Guy and the need to remain a spoilt brat at all times in their comfort zones. The 'Mr Nice Guy' says men and women have equal urges and equal rights to express the same, as his belief is that he 'must be viewed as a good guy'. The 'spoilt brat' says that sex should happen when he feels like it and the way he feels like it, as his belief is that he 'must be made comfortable at all times'.
Such men come across as 'considerate lovers' whenever they initiate sex, but if they decide that they do not feel like having sex with their partner for whatever reason, they can be the most 'insensitive partners', turning a blind eye and a deaf ear to the sexual urges of the partner, while they continue to be 'caring men' in terms of being supportive and helpful in other areas of life which helps them retain the title of 'Mr Nice Guy.' The 'blow hot blow cold' attitude of such men nike blazer fleuri pas cher , can leave sexually liberated women not only unfulfilled, but also confused, concerned, hurt and angry. An angry woman would be intimidating; i.e. demand, confront, accuse, put down and threaten the man.
MEN NEED GROWING UP
Businessman Mark Taylor and Stacy, an interior designer had a love marriage and were sexually active pre-maritally. Extremely passionate, he would initiate and plan all the intimate encounters and expected Stacy to participate actively, though she was not relaxed with pre-marital sex. After marriage, Stacy dropped her inhibitions due to the social sanction in marriage and started initiating sex.
She was surprised to note Mark's lack of response on several occasions nike roshe run print palm trees , and felt confused and hurt. On enquiry, he would say that he could physically respond only when he was in the mood and that he could not 'will' an erection. She resigned to this but later realised that he was simply unwilling to open himself up if he was not the initiator, only because of his need for comfort. He was his 'Mama's favoured boy' and happy in his comfort zones, but Stacy was unhappy and therefore sought counselling for them. Over a period of time, with counselling, he matured from 'Mama's favoured boy' to 'Stacy's adult partner'.
There are several reasons why a sexual relationship might not be fulfilling for the woman besides the normal heterosexual man's 'blow hot blow cold attitude'. The man may be hesitant and anxiety-prone due to performance anxiety or anxiety about whether he will be able to meet the woman's sexual appetite, he might fear hurting her especially if she has come across as a 'delicate darling' in previous intimate moments and accused him of hurting her, he might have an actual physical problem; i.e. erectile dysfunction, he might be withholding sex from her to punish her for some other transgression in the relationship, he might be depressed or severely stressed in work, financial or other areas of his life nike roshe run noir et fleur , etc.
INTIMIDATION IS SELF-DEFEATING
While the sexual relationship might not be fulfilling for the woman, the future health of the relationship in sexual areas and otherwise, depends a lot on the way the woman approaches the issue of sex with her partner.
Janet Griggs and husband Paul had a tumultuous relationship with loud fights and accusations hurled both ways. Janet would be extremely intimidating in her demeanour and put Paul down if there was no intimacy for a while due to some work stress or financial pressure in his life saying, 'What are you doing about sex? Are you a man or what?' Her intimidating style in this sensitive area of a man-woman relationship, put him off completely after some time, and he turned it around in vengeance and put her down by commenting that her body was unattractive and her personality was a put-off.
This created feelings of rejection in her, and things spiraled out of control for them. They finally legally divorced with him initiating the separation.
A man often reacts to an angry and intimidating demeanour by either ignoring the woman and remaining aloof, anxiously making excuses for his unresponsiveness in fatiguestress, etc. accusing her of being a nymphomaniac or unlady-like, putting her down in other areas of the relationship an However so.
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